Sunday 14 August 2011

Repost: To those who are getting married...

Salam uols...This time i nak repost ape yg i penah post dekat my other blog...well, kenapa tak gune je blog itu instead of creating anotha new blog? Good question! Sebabnye...My identity was busted oredi dalam blog itu! huhu...disebabkan i seorang yg pemalu (kuikui...;P), makanya i malas nk mencampur adukkan wedding progress i dalam blog itu...at least this new blog i boleh focus aja on my W-day progress...yeeehaaa...

Okeyla, xperlu membebel panjang...here's the repost below (with slight editting)...

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I passed through my lil' brother's fb wall and found this one article. Dalam hati terpikir, "Wahhh, budak kecik ni dah terpikir nak kahwin dah nih!" Haha...Well well, good things shouldn't be stopped ait? Ceyy, bab kahwin laju je 'shouldn't be stopped'...kehkeh...*smile* 
So, straight to the point - the article is about "Janji Allah untuk mereka yang ingin berkahwin". By reading just the first sentence has locked me to read further about it. Sangat menarik!

"Apabila seorang muslim baik lelaki atau wanita akan berkahwin, biasanya akan timbul pelbagai perasaan akan timbul. Ada rasa gundah, resah, risau, bimbang, termasuk juga tidak sabar menunggu datangnya si pendamping. Bahkan ketika dalam proses taaruf sekalipun masih ada juga perasaan keraguan."

Hoho..I was in THAT position just days before my E-day! In fact, siap ade gado2 sayang lagi the night before the day. Huuu..Good to hear that itu adalah normal!!! Cuak jugak as to why did I have such feelings, but yeah...The devils will always try their best to stop any two muslims from using the right channel ait?

Dan kawinkanlah orang-orang yang sendirian diantara kamu dan orang-orang yang layak (berkawin) dari hamba-hamba sahayamu yang lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin Allah akan memampukan mereka dengan kurniaNya. Dan Allah Maha Luas (Pemberian-Nya) lagi Maha Mengetahui”. (An Nuur: 32)

The truth: Money is always an issue when it comes to getting married for an average-income person. Betol tak? Kan kan? If you come from a wealthy family, then money won't be an issue usually. :) 

Me and mr fiance, we always discussed how and where do get money to hold for such an event. Haruslah sangat banyak pakai duit! Adess...We would always end up with frustation and no solution.

I've always heard and read about the above verse before this. Tapi mestilah tak ambik port sangat sbb it wasn't applicable to me previously. But when your time has come, sudah terhantuk baru terngadah. Ngeee...

Till today pon duit dalam account boleh bilang dengan jari je. Huu…Tapi takpe, I believe, Allah will make it easy for those who have good intentions and I believe in His promises. InshaAllah…You should believe the same as well if you’re in my position. :)

Well, that is just one point that I mentioned over here. You should read the whole post here. Sangat menarik untuk dikongsi. 

Sharing is freaking COOL-ness…;)

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